Weekly round up: Date Night Outfits

I’ve had a very busy week this week with lots going on in the evenings and leaving no time to blog, so I’m going to make this a ’round-up’.

Last Friday Hubby and I were due to go for dinner with friends to an Iranian restaurant called Soltan in Putney.  Neither of us had eaten Iranian food before and we weren’t disappointed – it was incredible tasty, although I have no idea what it was that we had as our part-Iranian friend ordered for us.

I wore a cardigan/jacket which I’ve had for ages but haven’t worn as I couldn’t find a top to wear underneath it.  The jacket is from the Next January sales (about £12 I think), the vest was £4 from Primark and the jeans are my trusty New Look Inspire dark denims.  The jacket is a sort of boucle knit with pink and shimmering flecks going through it.  The look made me feel chic but also modern.

Iraninan with the Ghodse's

On Saturday morning I awoke to find that hubby had made us a lovely breakfast of boiled egg and soldiers – the perfect way to start the weekend!

Breakfast made for me

On Saturday night Hubby and I had a date night and I used it as an excuse to get dressed up.  I wore my black velvet Boden pencil skirt with an embellished cardigan from Monsoon which I’ve had for about 4 years and at the last-minute added my thick black patent leather belt to match my patent platform courts from New Look.

Boden pencil + Monsoon cardi

 

On Monday we went to Tony Roma’s in Kingston for Monday night endless ribs – mmmmmmm, yummy.

I wore what I’d been wearing to work all day as I didn’t have time to change.  I got this dress in the January sales from Monsoon and the shoes are my nude favourites from Marks and Spencer.

Work outfit - burgandy dress

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Statement Necklace and Winter Skincare

It’s been almost a week since I did my last post, which I’m not too happy with but other things have been going on and getting in the way of my writing.  I’ve been trying to type up bits and pieces on my iPhone, but I think I’m going to end up giving myself RSI so I’ve given that up.  I’ve got a massive list of things I want to write about, I just need to knuckle down and get on with it.  I’m writing this tucked up in bed with a hot water bottle, as the weather has taken an inextricable turn for the worst and it is ridiculously freezing.

At the end of last week I went to stay with my brother and his family who live a couple of hours drive away, as he’ll be leaving for a six month deployment to afghanistan next week and he had some time off before he goes.  It was lovely to see them all and have a few days off work too.

On Saturday, husband and I went shopping in Kingston as I had a list of things I needed to pick up and also wanted to have a look around the shops, both to see what’s coming into the stores for spring/summer and also catch the Monsoon sale which had just started.  It’s quite a large store in Kingston, but the sale was pretty unimpressive and I left empty handed.

I did pick up this amazing statement necklace from Dorothy Perkins (BHS concession).  I’ve had my eye on it for quite a while, as it was about £20 full price, but I picked it up for about £6.  I just need somewhere to where it now!

necklace

The constant changes in temperature has also been playing havoc with my skin, both on my face and body (particularly my legs, which have gone almost grey with dryness), so I spent a good while in boots looking at different lotions which could bring me some relief.

I settled on this Skin Comforting Miracle Balm from the Champney’s range (£5, but available across the 3 for 2 items), which is a bit like a hard and scented 8 hour cream from Elizabeth Arden, as you can use it on skin, lips, cuticles etc.  It smells amazing and when I have it on my skin feels just like I’ve had a facial. It really has that luxury spa scent about it too.  I’ve only had it a few days and I’ve already used loads!  I have combination skin, so I’ve only been using it across the top of my forehead and my cheeks, I think if I used it on my t-zone that it would cause a breakout as it’s very rich. 

Champneys face balm 2Champneys face balm 1

For my legs I went for this Sanctuary Spa 24 hour moisturiser (£5.50, but again available in the 3 for 2 offer) as it came with a pump, making it easier to handle.  This too smells amazing, but be warned, it’s made to make your legs tingle!  I thought I was allergic to it at first until I re-read the back and saw that it’s got an agent in it which tingles the skin in order to make you feel more energised.  I’m not sure I had more energy, but I definitely have softer skin.

Sanctuary body lotion

Lastly, I’ve attached a picture of the amazing earrings I talked about in my last post.  They’re outrageously amazing and have made me feel very glamorous on the two occasions I’ve had chance to wear them!  I got them in the January sale from Accessorise, reduced from £15 to £4.50.  Another lovely bargain!

Earrings

The skinny on a weekend away

Hubby and I went had a weekend away last week, we had been given a stay in a country house as wedding gift and it was nearing its expiry.  We were only going to be gone for 24 hours but I was determined to only take the new small weekend bag I purchased a couple of weeks ago and wrote about here.  This meant some very thrifty packing, something which doesn’t come easy due to my ‘just in case’ nature.

Anyway, I decided that to maximise the space available I should wear the same jeans on Saturday and Sunday and just take an outfit for Saturday night and a change of top for Sunday.  Easy peasy!  Ho, ho ho……

I really wanted to wear my riding boots but that would mean I’d have to wear a skirt which isn’t ideal for keeping warm.  In everyday life I’m not a really big trouser/jeans wearer, much preferring the figure skimming/lump and bump hiding coverage of dresses and skirts.  I have two pairs of jeans and they are both New Look Inspire boot cut dark denims, I keep one for everyday type wear and the darker ones for evenings out.  When the evening pair start to look faded they get relegated to every day and I go and buy a new pair. 

The only other trousers I’ve ever worn are M&S linen trousers, of which I had 4 pairs – black, stone, white and navy.  In the summer months I would wear a pair each day to work with a flowing top and of course the obligatory arm covering cardigan.  Last autumn, hubby-to-be (as he was then) took me to task and told me that the linen trousers weren’t doing me any favours, made me look bigger than I am and really should be consigned to the charity bag. 

After getting over the initial shock and giving H2B’s comments some thought, I decided that I would try on a couple of trousers which were a bit more form-fitting and I was lucky enough to pick up a pair of navy chino’s and black cigarette style pants quite cheap in the sale from Dorothy Perkins, deciding that if they didn’t work out for me then I hadn’t blown a load of cash on them.  Needless to say I’ve never put the linen trousers back on since and last month I donated them to the charity bag. On my hen weekend I wore a pair of black skinny jeans, also from Dorothy Perkins, which was a total first for me but everyone was nothing but complimentary and the earth didn’t open up and suck me and my plentiful rump into it either.

Anyway, back to the point.  Since this mini-revelation I’ve been wanting to try the ‘jeans tucked into boots’ style, but haven’t really found any jeans where the fabric was thin/soft enough that they allow my boots to zip up.  However, the Thursday before we went away I found a perfect pair, again from Dorothy Perkins.   They were £15 full price and I also had a 25% off voucher – total bargain!!

Here’s a not that great picture of me trying them on at home:

 Jeans in boots 2 Jeans in boots

And here’s what they look like online.

 Indigo skinny jeans

All things considered, I was really happy with the look and it made me really think about all the ‘rules’ I impose on myself or pick up from well-meaning but totally rubbish magazine articles which dictate what you should or shouldn’t wear if you’re larger.

For our night out I packed another pair of skinny jeans (same black ones I wore on my hen night), with a nude vest I got in the sale at New Look and a black blazer I got in the January sales from Next.  It’s a sort of velour type fabric but it looks like pony skin – not an amazing description, but I LOVE it and have worn it out the last few times I’ve been out.  I finished the look off with my nude M&S Sledge fakies and a patent clutch bag, also from next.

Sat Night - Bish Stort

You can’t see them in this picture but I also had on an amazingly huge and sparkly pair of statement earrings from Accessorize which I’ve been wanting to wear for ages but felt that the outfits I was trying to wear them with wasn’t right, but they worked really well with this look.

Cold has stopped play – some work outfits from last week

I’ve been suffering from the really bad cold which is going around, which means that I have been living in my p-jays since Sunday, so with little to write about and no back log of saved ideas generated yet, I thought I’d give a round-up of a couple of outfits from the end of last week

 Thursday’s work outfit

 As I haven’t ironed for what seems like a millennium, by the end of last week I was struggling to pull suitable work outfits together.  The company I work for has a dress policy, but depending on the department you work for, depends on whether it is followed or not.  Sometime the policy isn’t even followed in the same department – it’s all very wishy-washy to be honest. 

I work as a PA to a Company Director and as I regularly have to meet and greet guests from reception I always like to ensure that I dress smartly Monday to Thursday, and that sometimes extends to “dress down Friday” if we have a VIP visitor coming in.  I generally stick to dresses and skirts for work which I can dress up or down with jackets and cardigans if I’m going out afterwards.  Dresses are my favourite though as I feel that they are so easy to just pull on and go!

Anyway, due to general malaise on the ironing front, I was only left with couple of ‘dress down Friday’ style skirts and a dress which needed the button sewing back on (I always plan to do stuff like sewing on buttons at the weekend, but then Monday rolls around and it’s still not done – note to self: must get better at planning my personal time!).  I was already running late and so struck with a mild panic I turned to my Tim Gunn mantra and decided to go with a dress-down Friday skirt and “make it work”.

  Work outfit - thurs

The sweater was another outlet bargain from LK Bennett in Portsmouth (£19 from £99 if I remember rightly).  It’s a gorgeous silk mix fine knit with ¾ length sleeves.  I put a navy Primark vest on underneath for modesty/warmth (air-con battle at work anyone??).  The skirt is from White Stuff and I’ve had it for a while.  I usually wear it with funky coloured tights and my Duo brown riding boots.  This time I added my purse friendly and amazingly comfortable caramel court shoes from Marks & Spencer.  These little beaut’s are a mere £19.50, they look exactly like the LK Bennett Sledge Court, as worn by every member of the Middleton family (even the dog; it’s true, I saw it on Mail Online…..) but most importantly I can testify that they are so comfortable that they can be worn for an 8 hour-long girls night which includes about 4 hours of dancing.

Friday’s Outfit

Dress down Friday saw me wearing my Boden dark denim A-line skirt, a multicoloured vest from Next with a Gap cardigan and my brown riding boots from Duo.  The belt was a bargain from Primark for about £3!  Normally, I would have worn this outfit with the vest pulled out over the waistband of my skirt – a hangover from always trying to cover my bum!  However, I decided to tuck it in and stick the belt on and I was really pleased with how it looked.  It’s amazing how my brain tells me to dress in a certain way in an effort to hide my lumps and bumps but in doing that I can often end up looking bigger than I really am.  The sartorial equivalent of putting your head in the sand…..

Friday work outfit

 

Here’s where you can buy the items or similar:

BLENHEIM SKIRT  Product Image Product Image

Everyday A-Line Skirt  Camara Tan Leather ladies-boots list 

 

 

LFW – Clements Ribeiro

I saw online a few dresses Clements Ribeiro sent down the catwalk at London Fashion Week, and if they carry on their collaboration with Evans I really hope they bring some of these styles to the masses.  I would wear both of these looks and I think they are absolutely adaptable to fit larger sizes.

The clash! Stripes and checks were contrasted with pretty graphic florals

How gorgeous is this dress?  Both the shape and the floral pattern are beautiful, a real blend of modern vintage – I love, love, love it!

Bloomin' marvellous: Clements Ribeiro went heavy on the florals but shied away from traditional prettiness, instead giving them a graphic edge

I’m not sure I like the collar on this dress, but the length and the sleeves are pure class.  It’s accessorised with a thin black belt but I think it would look equally as good with a wider patent black belt too.

Buy similar outfits:

Joe Browns dress at Simply Be

Floral Lace Shift Dress

Black lace dress at Marks & Spencer

Peach Lace Print dress at Debenhams

 

 

Date Night Outfit

My lovely hubby took me out for dinner on Saturday night and as I had my suede boots out from photographing them for my last blog I thought I’d give them a trip out (I had checked the weather report – no rain was predicted, so it was safe!). 

LK Bennett Dress

I decided to wear my bargain LK Bennett dress which I picked up for a total steal at the outlet store in Gunwharf Quays, Portsmouth.  I wore a black vest from Primark underneath it along with my M&S suck it all in tights.

We had a really great evening, eating, drinking and chatting.  I hadn’t told him that I’ve been doing this blog.  I’m not sure really why, I think it’s because I was worried he might tease me I guess.  Anyway, I had to ask him to take this picture of me, which caused much head scratching but the cab turned up before he could ask more.  Unusually, he remembered and brought it up in the conversation later on in the evening and took advantage of my wine-fuzzled head, so I ‘fessed up.  Of course, my fears were totally unfounded and he was totally supportive and maybe just a touch impressed, which was pretty cool. 

During the day I took advantage of the lovely, sunny, spring weather and walked to the next local town (about a 40 minute walk), to meet a good friend of mine who is having a bit of a bad time of it lately.  I got there a bit early and popped into one of the charity shops and found an amazing, brand new weekend bag by Jasper Conran for Tripp.  Well, I think it might be a laptop bag but it’s really quite big and it zips right open and it’s plenty big enough to fit clothes for one night away.  Not bad for £7.50!  Me and hubby will be away for one night on Saturday (a night in a country manor house which was a wedding gift from my best friend since school), so it will get its first use!Weekend bag 2Weekend bag 3Weekend bag 1

 

Where you can buy a similar outfit:

Lizzie Jersey Printed Wrap Dress  Laurel Black suede ladies-boots list Bodysensor™ 60 Denier Secret Slimming™ Tummy Tuck Tights with Magicwear™ Technology Fairtrade Cotton Rich Strappy Vest with Stay New™ Mood Mini Pearl And Pink Patterned Bead Stacker Necklace